Key Holders of Influence
A deeper look into what shaped your beliefs, behaviors, and identity.
Before you could choose your own beliefs, you were handed them.
From your earliest relationships to the culture around you, you were shaped by voices, experiences, and expectations that told you who to be, how to behave, and what to believe.
These are your Key Holders of Influence-the people, systems, and environments that contributed to your Inherited Map.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness.
When you can name who handed you the keys, you can finally choose which ones to keep-and which ones to let go.
What Are Key Holders?
A Key Holder of Influence is anyone or anything that shaped your internal world before you were conscious of it.
They didn’t just give you advice-they gave you emotional programming, rules, and roles.
Often, these key holders were doing their best… but what they passed down may no longer serve you.
These influences are layered, subtle, and deeply internalized-which is why they’re so powerful to uncover.
Types of Key Holders
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Why It Matters
These influences didn’t just shape your past-they’re still shaping your present.
The decisions you make, the roles you take on, the things you avoid, and the beliefs you hold about yourself all trace back to these early key holders.
When you can name the influence, you can stop reacting unconsciously-and start responding from your truth.